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Maybe This Feels Familiar...
Many women recognize their relationship patterns long before they understand why they keep repeating them.
You love deeply. You give people the benefit of the doubt. You try to communicate, understand, compromise, and make things work.
But somewhere along the way, you start questioning yourself.
You ignore something that doesn't feel right. You make an excuse for something you said you wouldn't accept. You struggle to hold the boundary you were so sure about. Or you find yourself attracted to the same kind of relationship in a different package.
Maybe you're in a relationship now. Maybe you're trying to figure out whether to stay or go. Maybe you're healing from one. Or maybe you're single and wondering why love keeps bringing up the same patterns.
Different relationship. Different circumstances. Same question:
Why do I keep losing myself in love?
And here's what I want you to know:
This masterclass isn't about how to get him, keep him, fix him, or leave him.
It's about you.
Understanding the patterns you bring into love, where they came from, what keeps them going, and how to begin trusting yourself enough to choose differently.
What You’ll Discover
This isn’t another conversation about finding the “right person” or figuring out how to make someone love you differently. We’re going to look at you in love—the patterns you repeat, the things you tolerate, the boundaries you struggle to hold, and the moments you stop trusting what you already know.
We’ll explore why you can consciously know what you want in a relationship and still find yourself doing something completely different. Why you might recognize the red flag and explain it away. Know the boundary and move it. Promise yourself you won’t settle again…and somehow find yourself back in a familiar pattern.
We’ll also look at what may be underneath those patterns—the beliefs, fears, conditioning, and what I call Bruels™: bullshit rules learned early that can quietly shape what you believe you have to do, tolerate, or become in order to be loved.
Most importantly, we’ll begin rebuilding the relationship that affects every other relationship you have: the one you have with yourself. Because the goal isn’t to teach you how to get someone, keep someone, or leave someone. It’s to help you hear yourself again, trust what you know, and make choices in love without abandoning yourself in the process.
The question becomes less “How do I make this relationship work?” and more “What does loving someone without losing myself look like?”
Why Finding Her?
I created Finding Her because I believe we can spend so much time trying to understand everyone else that we stop listening to ourselves. We question what we feel, second-guess what we know, make ourselves smaller, and sometimes stay in patterns long after a part of us knows something needs to change.
And this isn't only about unhealthy relationships. You can lose pieces of yourself in a relationship with someone you genuinely love. You can lose yourself trying to keep the peace, trying to be understanding, trying to be chosen, or simply becoming so focused on “us” that you stop asking what you need.
My work combines coaching, subconscious work, and hypnotherapy because understanding a pattern intellectually doesn't always mean we stop repeating it. Sometimes you already know what you're doing. The more important question is: why does it still feel so hard to do something different?
Finding Her isn't about becoming a different woman. It's about getting quiet enough to hear yourself again, understanding what's been getting in the way, and rebuilding the self-trust to choose what feels right for you.
You don't need to have your relationship figured out before you come. That's the point.
This Masterclass is For You If....
Maybe you're in a relationship and you've started wondering where you went in the middle of it. You love your person, but you've gotten used to putting your needs second, keeping the peace, or questioning whether you're asking for too much.
Maybe you already know something isn't working, but you keep second-guessing yourself. One day you're certain about what you need, and the next you're wondering if you're overreacting, expecting too much, or making a mistake.
Maybe the relationship has already ended, but you're still carrying it with you. You're replaying what happened, wondering what you missed, or questioning whether you'll end up in the same kind of relationship again.
Or maybe you're single and ready for love, but you're starting to recognize that different people keep bringing out the same patterns in you. You're ready to understand why—and do something differently this time.
You don't have to be married. You don't have to be single. You don't have to be going through a breakup.
You just have to be ready to stop making love only about the other person and start getting curious about the woman you become inside of it.
This isn't about giving up on love.
It's about learning how to stop giving up on yourself to have it.
Ready to Find Yourself in Love Again?
Join me live for Finding Her: LOVE, a free 60-minute masterclass created for women who are ready to understand the patterns they repeat in relationships, reconnect with themselves, and start trusting what they want, need, and know.
You don't need to be single. You don't need to be leaving your relationship. And you definitely don't need to have it all figured out. Come exactly where you are.
Date: Tuesday, October 13
8:00 PM ET • Live Online
We'll spend about 60 minutes together, and if you can't join me live, you'll have access to the replay for 48 hours.
Free to attend. Registration is required.
Register below and I'll send everything you need to join me live straight to your inbox.